Gift for someone you love: One of the best way to express love

The Laws of Gifting for someone you love

Getting a Gift for someone you love is one of the best form to express your love. Gift is a 4-letter word which makes the entire human race (especially the fairer sex) happy.

Gifts are loved by everyone! Gifting is an emotional besides a physical transaction where one gains (The Receiver) and feels ecstatic at the expense of the other (The Gifter). This process is repeated again after some time in a vice-versa fashion. The receiver becomes the gifter and the gifter becomes the receiver. Therefore the process of equilibrium is restored in nature.

Gifts can be for anyone:

Gift for someone you love the most:Husband

This process is controlled by the “Law of Rejection”. A gift given by a wife to her husband most of the time is rejected by him on some flimsy ground. The most common and a no-brainer gift for husbands, often procured by the wife, is a shirt. The reasons for the gift getting rejected are several. It can be either size not matching or color too feminist or a similar kind is already there in a wardrobe. It also proves that in spite of spending so much time together both husband and wife are like two tracks of a railway line. They run parallelly, bonded together by several fish-plates,never merging or agreeing on a common point.

Gift for someone you love more than yourself: Wife

This gifting process is governed by the “Law of Extravagance”. Husbands normally tend to avoid the surprise factor because they want to keep the other party happy. Therefore they ask for a choice. And after listening to the choice they normally tend to look at their savings and make a provision for a substantial unplanned expense.

Gifts range from a Michael Kors ladies’ handbag to i-phone X, Tanishq jewelry, an exotic international vacation.The value of the gift is directly proportional to the love quotient for the spouse. Husbands need to be very cautious here.

The gift value can’t exceed the elasticity limit because if it does then there are chances of the debt exceeding the asset value.

Gifts for Children whom you love the most

This gifting is controlled by the “Law of Emotion”. Money doesn’t matter here at all. What matters is the unconditional love for your children. There are times when you get into a barter arrangement with kids and make gifting slightly conditional. So, if your daughter wants an iPhone, she has to score 95% in her boards. Similarly, if your son wants a laptop, the condition is again related to studies.

Gits for parents whom you love and respect

Parents are one category where you have to force the gift literally to them. This process is controlled by “Law of Caring”. It’s your Dad’s 60^th birthday and you want to present a watch to him. The first response from him would be that he has enough in his collection and doesn’t need one more. Besides he needs to be convinced a thousand times that you are not over spending. You decide that you will buy your mom a new spectacle as the current one has less power.Therefore you fix an appointment with the optometrist but your mother is reluctant to go saying the one she has is fine.

Applying Physics to the process of Gifting:

The principles governing Gifting are also influenced by Newton’s three laws of motion.

The 1st law states that a body continues in a state of rest until and unless an external force is applied to it. It is also called the law of inertia – This law generally governs married men especially husbands. Husbands have a tendency to forget all celebratory days and end up buying a gift only when forced by an external force (wife).

The 2nd law states that the acceleration of an object is dependent upon two variables – the net force acting upon the object and the mass of the object. This law is applicable to boys who are bitten by the love bug. Example – A boy tends to buy an expensive gift fast if it is meant for his would-be mother-in-law. The reason is that there are 2 forces working on him – the mass of the object (mother-in-law) × force applied (girlfriend).

The 3rd law states that for every action there is an equal and opposite reaction. This is a very universal law and applies to 80% of all gifting. It can be best explained by gifts given during marriages. The value of your gift given in a relative or friends marriage is exactly the same as the value of the gift you received when the marriage took place in your family.

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